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5 Questions to Ask Your Insurance Before Your First Therapy Session
Starting therapy is an important step, but understanding your insurance benefits doesn't have to be overwhelming. Learn the five essential questions to ask your insurance company before your first appointment so you can better understand your coverage, expected costs, and mental health benefits with confidence.
Angelica Madrid
4 days ago4 min read


The Regulation Industrial Complex
What if your nervous system isn't overreacting, but responding honestly to the world around you? Many of us are quietly dysregulated, carrying grief, anxiety, and stress while appearing to function just fine. This reflection explores why healing may have less to do with managing everything alone and more to do with creating spaces where connection, community, and collective care allow us to be fully human.
Melanie Sheckels
Jul 242 min read


Climate Distress: You’re Not Making This Up
As climate change brings more extreme heat, wildfires, and uncertainty, many people are experiencing climate anxiety, grief, and emotional overwhelm. Learn how climate-aware therapy can help you process these feelings, build resilience, and find hope while navigating the mental health impacts of a changing world.

Kate Maurer
Jul 182 min read


Imposter Syndrome in First-Generation College Students: Why Success Doesn’t Always Feel Real
Why do first-generation college students struggle with imposter syndrome? Explore the roots of self-doubt, belonging, and resilience in higher education.
Melanie Sivley
May 292 min read


Navigating Chronic Illness:
Living with a chronic illness affects more than just physical health — it can impact identity, relationships, emotional well-being, and daily life. This blog explores the emotional realities of chronic illness, practical coping strategies, the importance of support systems, and how therapy can help individuals navigate grief, resilience, and healing.
Melanie Sivley
May 223 min read


The Federal Pregnancy Website That Isn't Telling You Everything
The federal website moms.gov presents itself as a neutral pregnancy resource, but leaves out critical information about reproductive healthcare, abortion access, and crisis pregnancy centers. In this blog, the BODHI Counseling team explores what the site includes, what it omits, and where individuals in Champaign-Urbana can find accurate, judgment-free support and reproductive health resources.
Melanie Sivley
May 197 min read


Mental Health Is Physical Health: What Anxiety Reveals About How the Body Regulates Stress
Anxiety doesn’t just affect the mind—it lives in the body. This article explores how chronic anxiety impacts physical health, from sleep and digestion to the nervous system, and why understanding the mind-body connection is key to long-term well-being.
Melanie Sivley
Apr 243 min read


Depression and Older Adults
Depression in older adults is a growing yet often overlooked concern. Learn how to recognize the signs, understand the causes, and support seniors with compassionate, effective mental health care.
Melanie Sivley
Mar 202 min read


Activist Fatigue and Burnout: When Caring Deeply Becomes Exhausting
Activist burnout is a growing mental health concern for organizers, helpers, and socially conscious individuals. Constant exposure to injustice and urgency can lead to emotional exhaustion and activist fatigue. At Bodhi Counseling in Champaign, IL, feminist therapy helps clients explore burnout, rebuild boundaries, and care for their mental health while staying connected to their values and commitment to social change.
Melanie Sivley
Mar 52 min read


Feminist Therapy in a Complicated World: When It’s Not Just You
If you are seeking feminist therapy in Champaign, IL, Bodhi Counseling & Consulting offers trauma-informed, socially aware counseling for anxiety, depression, burnout, and identity-related stress. Our Champaign therapists recognize how gender roles, systemic inequities, and cultural expectations affect mental health. We provide collaborative, affirming care that helps you build boundaries, process trauma, and reconnect with your voice and agency.
Melanie Sivley
Feb 272 min read


Healing from Sexual Abuse: You Are Not Alone
If you have experienced sexual abuse, you deserve to be believed. Media coverage like the Epstein files can be activating, but healing is possible. Bodhi Counseling provides a safe, trauma informed space where you can reclaim your strength and voice.
Melanie Sivley
Feb 194 min read


A Yap Session on DEI
What does DEI really mean—and why does it matter? Here’s a thoughtful, grounded look at what diversity, equity, and inclusion really mean, and why they’re essential in a polarized world.
Melanie Sivley
Jan 194 min read


Meet Chad Cottrell, PMHNP-BC- A: More Connected Approach to Mental Health
Meet Chad Cottrell, PMHNP-BC, our new Psychiatric Mental Health at Bodhi Counseling who offers integrative, whole-person care that looks beyond symptoms to support healing across the lifespan.
Melanie Sivley
Jan 152 min read


New Year Anxiety: When January Feels Overwhelming
If New Year’s resolutions feel forced or performative, you’re not alone. This post explores why anxiety often spikes in January and why real change doesn’t need to start on an arbitrary date.
Melanie Sivley
Jan 83 min read


Grief During the Holidays: A Reminder of Kindness
Navigating grief during the holidays can feel overwhelming, especially when traditions carry memories of those we’ve lost. This season, remember that your feelings are valid and you have the freedom to honor your grief in the ways that feel right for you.
Melanie Sivley
Dec 31, 20254 min read


Staying Sober During the Holidays
Staying sober during the holidays is not about perfection—it’s about protecting your peace. Learn how to stay grounded, manage triggers, build supportive traditions, and honor your recovery during a season that can be both joyful and overwhelming.
Melanie Sivley
Dec 24, 20252 min read


Surviving the Holidays as an LGBTQ+ Person: Caring for Yourself During a Complicated Season
The holidays can be complicated for many LGBTQ+ people, especially when family dynamics, expectations, or identity pressures feel overwhelming. You deserve a season grounded in choice, safety, and authentic connection. With supportive boundaries, intentional self-care, and chosen family, it’s possible to create a holiday experience that honors who you are.
Melanie Sivley
Dec 17, 20254 min read


Surviving Winter Break: Tips for College Students Going Home
Winter break can be a tough transition for many college students. Moving from independence at school to the dynamics of home can feel stressful, overwhelming, or even unsafe. With the right strategies—like setting boundaries, managing expectations, and creating intentional downtime—you can navigate this shift with more grounding, clarity, and self-compassion.
Melanie Sivley
Dec 10, 20252 min read


A Very Un-Holiday Holiday: Celebrating Differently (or Not At All)
Not everyone feels festive during the holidays. For some, this season brings stress, grief, or exhaustion. Choosing peace, self-care, or solitude over traditional celebrations can be the most authentic way to recharge and reconnect with what truly matters.
Melanie Sivley
Dec 3, 20253 min read


What Is Ego State Therapy?
Ego State Therapy helps us understand the different parts within us—each shaped by past experiences and emotions. When certain parts get stuck in old patterns, they can create inner conflict. Through compassionate exploration, this therapy helps these parts feel seen and supported, allowing your whole system to move toward healing and integration.
Melanie Sivley
Nov 30, 20254 min read
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